29 August 2010, 1:34 pm
I have 5 kids 3 of which I have a close relationship with. I haven't seen much of my older two kids in the past 5 years. I dropped by. I wanted to renew my relationship with them after my youngest daughter was born I felt guilty for my absence. I was going to do business out of town in kansas a whole state away from where they live. I know it was inbetween both their birthdays. My daughter and her brother are 13 and 14 respectively. Well it is like they were ok my daughter at least was. My biggest surprise was that my oldest kid was a transsexual. But her son was a freak I didn't even realize that was the kid that used to be my son and I don't associate with that person anymore or acknowledge it. Anyway, the thing is I still don't want to be absent in my daughter's life. To me it's not fair to her that I should be absent because her family is something hard for me to deal with. But I really don't want to deal with them cuz I mean I really have gotten into too much with my ex-wife and then the fact that I'd have to deal with what was my son. I feel it's almost best I should be absent just so it wouldn't make matters worse? also I forgot to say I was absent from their lives but my wife and I took them in when their mother couldn't on and off and I have financially cared for them the whole time. actually I was in their lives just not directly especially before they were 8 amd 7... Read More »
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